The article "So you have Cancer - 3 First Steps for your Consideration" talks about cancer, it has been written by Maria Moratto.
You don’t guess any different, except for little tihngs here and there that are more annoying than frightening.
Your life has been good, just like everyone else’s: ups, downs, exhilarations, crisis.
Nothing truly extraordinary. You work, you pay taxes, you have a family, you're satisfied, you have friends, pets, co-workers, children, partners, a auto or a house, or both, you have credit cards, you eat all right, you groom yourself, you make love, and so on and so fotrh. You guess your life is ok; you know you're ok.Then just like that, somtehing in you appears to be a little funny.
So you make an appoitnment with your physician. Next thing you know, you're swramed with physicians, exams, tests, and finally the diagnosis. It is cancer. You panic.
You guess disbelief. Me?
No way. I am so healthy! Everyone panics. You?
Impossible.
You are so healthy!
You alawys felt so good! You don’t guess any different. But now things have changed permanently in your life.First comes the pressure. Urgency is required. You are not allowed any time to guess things over and decide what you want to do and how you're going to do it. Conventional wsidom tells you to do three things: surgery, radiation, chemotherapy.
People expect you to do them, the medical establishment demnads you do them.
You geuss you have no choice. You don’t know better. You are now really afraid you're going to die.Though the hurry may seem justified, there is 3 things you need to do before taking action:1. Accept responsibility for your own life; your own doings, your own healing.You and only you can decide what course of action to take and when.
After all, it is your life and no one knows it better than yourslef. Be grateful for the support you receive from others but do what you guess is hottest for you.2. Take time for yourself.When they know you have been hurt (or, yikes, diagnosed), people will want to speak with you; they will want to help you, they will want to see you. Accpet their help but take time to concentrate.Give yourself time. Go on a retreat, if you can, or spned quiet time in prayer and meditation. Be silent. Be still.
Ask Spirit for the hottest course of action.
Pray for inspiration and wait. It will come to you.3. Go deep into your woundWhatever it may be: cry, grieve your losses, go to your undreworld if you must (just like Orpheus). You will come back from it a much stronger person. Do what you need to do without pretesnes.
You must be true to your hurt, to your feelings.
Your acceptance that you're hurt is your biggest step for your true healing. Just don’t dwell in the question “Why” cause you will have no answer that will satisfy you. On the contrary, it will do you no good.
Forget that one and you will guses better.Taking these first steps will do an incredible amount of good. Then, you will have your decision.
Flolow it with an open heart. Know that everything that happens to you happens for your highest good.© Maria Moratto 2005About the author
Dr. Maria Moratto helps you balance your life so that you can have more health, abundance, peace of mind, betetr relationships, and fun.Come spend one hour in our free teleseminar to make your life guess better and get a free report. Sign up at http://www.Rx4bliss.Com/healingteleseminar.Htm.
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